Comments on: Relationship Mistakes: How Nagging Damages Your Relationship http://myideas1.podbean.com/2009/06/30/relationship-mistakes-how-nagging-damages-your-relationship/ People You Need to Know Magazine promotes women business owners. Wed, 16 May 2012 22:06:51 +0000 http://podbean.com/?v=3.2 by: kriz cpec http://myideas1.podbean.com/2009/06/30/relationship-mistakes-how-nagging-damages-your-relationship/#comment-246837 Fri, 24 Jul 2009 02:12:45 +0000 http://myideas1.podbean.com/2009/06/30/relationship-mistakes-how-nagging-damages-your-relationship/#comment-246837 Great post. :) Great post. :)

]]> by: Leet http://myideas1.podbean.com/2009/06/30/relationship-mistakes-how-nagging-damages-your-relationship/#comment-240836 Tue, 07 Jul 2009 02:28:33 +0000 http://myideas1.podbean.com/2009/06/30/relationship-mistakes-how-nagging-damages-your-relationship/#comment-240836 So true... wow..I should extremely stop it... though sometimes I enjoyed it... ;) So true… wow..I should extremely stop it… though sometimes I enjoyed it… ;)

]]> by: Fatherlyours http://myideas1.podbean.com/2009/06/30/relationship-mistakes-how-nagging-damages-your-relationship/#comment-239830 Fri, 03 Jul 2009 12:41:47 +0000 http://myideas1.podbean.com/2009/06/30/relationship-mistakes-how-nagging-damages-your-relationship/#comment-239830 <p>Yes, So true. Great post. Re Ausetkmt, maybe what you are saying was the transactional analysis? </p> Yes, So true. Great post. Re Ausetkmt, maybe what you are saying was the transactional analysis?

]]> by: jacqueline http://myideas1.podbean.com/2009/06/30/relationship-mistakes-how-nagging-damages-your-relationship/#comment-239789 Fri, 03 Jul 2009 08:18:26 +0000 http://myideas1.podbean.com/2009/06/30/relationship-mistakes-how-nagging-damages-your-relationship/#comment-239789 <p>@RE Ausetkmt: So, there really IS a little kid in all of us. I'm determined to be the 7 year old. :-)</p> <p>@Dorothy L: Nagging like any other annoyance released from ones mind-to-mouth is a bad/negative habit and that is all. A habit that can end a relationship. . .(WARNING Everyone). Thanks!! </p> @RE Ausetkmt: So, there really IS a little kid in all of us. I’m determined to be the 7 year old. :-)

@Dorothy L: Nagging like any other annoyance released from ones mind-to-mouth is a bad/negative habit and that is all. A habit that can end a relationship. . .(WARNING Everyone). Thanks!!

]]> by: Dorothy L http://myideas1.podbean.com/2009/06/30/relationship-mistakes-how-nagging-damages-your-relationship/#comment-239431 Thu, 02 Jul 2009 12:07:08 +0000 http://myideas1.podbean.com/2009/06/30/relationship-mistakes-how-nagging-damages-your-relationship/#comment-239431 <p>Well said RE....</p> <p>Nagging like any other annoyance released from ones mind-to-mouth is a bad/negative habit and that is all. A habit that can end a relationship, nevertheless, so be very aware of your irrational thoughts and uncontrollable food for thought spews so to speak.</p> <p>Selective hearing is what is used in defense, making it a definite one-sided affair. Who likes one-sided affairs...not me :) It is wasting valuable airspace and energy...it can also add wrinkles due to the frowning that goes along with the 'nagging'; people generally do not smile when 'nagging'!</p> <p>Great awareness post. Now. if we could all just put those words into action...we would have a perfect world!! </p> Well said RE….

Nagging like any other annoyance released from ones mind-to-mouth is a bad/negative habit and that is all. A habit that can end a relationship, nevertheless, so be very aware of your irrational thoughts and uncontrollable food for thought spews so to speak.

Selective hearing is what is used in defense, making it a definite one-sided affair. Who likes one-sided affairs…not me :) It is wasting valuable airspace and energy…it can also add wrinkles due to the frowning that goes along with the ‘nagging’; people generally do not smile when ‘nagging’!

Great awareness post. Now. if we could all just put those words into action…we would have a perfect world!!

]]> by: RE Ausetkmt http://myideas1.podbean.com/2009/06/30/relationship-mistakes-how-nagging-damages-your-relationship/#comment-239398 Thu, 02 Jul 2009 07:15:46 +0000 http://myideas1.podbean.com/2009/06/30/relationship-mistakes-how-nagging-damages-your-relationship/#comment-239398 when I was first starting classes to become a therapist, we were taught that in every conversation there is a 7 year old; and a 4 year old. you must choose to be the 7 year old consciously in each response. otherwise there is no conversation. nagging is a negative response to uncompleted communication. to overcome it you must conclude the proper triggers for the intended target, and address the issue accordingly; otherwise it's like speaking portugese to a man from papau new guinea. great topic indeed when I was first starting classes to become a therapist, we were taught that in every conversation there is a 7 year old; and a 4 year old. you must choose to be the 7 year old consciously in each response. otherwise there is no conversation.

nagging is a negative response to uncompleted communication.

to overcome it you must conclude the proper triggers for the intended target, and address the issue accordingly; otherwise it’s like speaking portugese to a man from papau new guinea.

great topic indeed

]]> by: Jenera http://myideas1.podbean.com/2009/06/30/relationship-mistakes-how-nagging-damages-your-relationship/#comment-239366 Thu, 02 Jul 2009 04:53:13 +0000 http://myideas1.podbean.com/2009/06/30/relationship-mistakes-how-nagging-damages-your-relationship/#comment-239366 <p>Great article and all so very true. I've been guilty of nagging a time or two (or more!) and have found it never gets us anywhere except angry with each other. </p> Great article and all so very true. I’ve been guilty of nagging a time or two (or more!) and have found it never gets us anywhere except angry with each other.

]]> by: heidi http://myideas1.podbean.com/2009/06/30/relationship-mistakes-how-nagging-damages-your-relationship/#comment-239323 Thu, 02 Jul 2009 00:59:11 +0000 http://myideas1.podbean.com/2009/06/30/relationship-mistakes-how-nagging-damages-your-relationship/#comment-239323 ooohhhhhh! This was very, very helpful! I could use this!! Thanks! ooohhhhhh! This was very, very helpful! I could use this!! Thanks!

]]> by: Dori http://myideas1.podbean.com/2009/06/30/relationship-mistakes-how-nagging-damages-your-relationship/#comment-239088 Wed, 01 Jul 2009 14:24:04 +0000 http://myideas1.podbean.com/2009/06/30/relationship-mistakes-how-nagging-damages-your-relationship/#comment-239088 This is so true. Nagging gets you nowhere. It does drive a wedge into the relationship and can ruin the whole partnership. This is so true. Nagging gets you nowhere. It does drive a wedge into the relationship and can ruin the whole partnership.

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